So, it has come to my attention that when I wrote my post about my new job and the update for McKaylee's birthday, that some people thought I meant that only people I WANTED to come, could come. I just wanted to clarify so that people don't think i'm this big bitch that wanted to cut people out of Mac's birthday...
When I said "for those of you on my list that want to come..." I meant those of you on my BLOG list....not that there was this "special list" and if you weren't on it, you weren't coming. If you honestly believe that i'm shallow enough to cut out family from a famiy event, then no one really thinks that highly of me.
Now, I didn't mean anything rude to anyone when I wrote what I wrote on my last post. I just wrote what I was feeling....and I'm sorry if it makes anyone mad, but seriously, I wasn't going to go camping on the weekend of my daughters 1st birthday....that would have cut my family out of her birthday and if i'm not willing to cut out Marcus's side of the family, what on god's green earth makes anyone think I was going to cut out mine! I wanted everyone there! And when I say everyone, I MEAN EVERYONE! We made it where we celebrated on Sunday because most people come home from camping on sundays....and we thought you all could come down from the canyon and stop by on your way home.
Anyways,
Think what you want. I wasn't trying to make anyone mad....I was just saying how I felt....and too be fair, everyone knew when McKaylee was born, everyone knew she was going to turn one....and for you guys to plan a camping trip on that same weekend was kind of hurtfull...
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
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Posted by Curtis Family at 3:53 PM
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WELL MAGGIE THE WAY I SEE IT EVERYONE GOT HANDED DELIVERED INVITES TO THIS BIRTHDAY PARTY WE DID NOT GET ANYTHING SO THERE FOR WE DID NOT GET INVITED.YES YOUR DAUGHTERS BIRTHDAY LANDS ON A HOLIDAY WEEKEND BUT THAT IS A TIME THAT FAMILYS GO CAMPING OR ON A LITTLE TRIP BECAUSE THEY HAVE AN EXTRA DAY SO WHY WOULD YOU THINK WE WOULD COME HOME WHEN WE GET PAID FOR THE EXTRA DAY. YOU NEW IT WAS A LONG WEEKEND THAT YOU COULD HAVE DONE HER BIRTHDAY ON THE MONDAY AFTER OR THE SATURDAY AFTER KNOWING THAT PEOPLE WOULD NOT BE HOME. WE WAS ON A SMALL VACATION AND I WAS NOT COMEING HOME FOR ANYTHING, AND IM NOT SAYING THAT WE DON'T CARE, BUT THATS A BIG WEEKEND FOR US.HAVING YOUR DAUGHTER ON MEMORIAL DAY WEKEND IS NOTHING TRY HAVING ONE A DAY BEFORE CHRISTMAS EVE THAT IS A BIGGER HOLIDAY TO DEAL WITH.IF YOU DONT MEAN TO LEAVE MARCUS'S FAMILY OUT WHY DONT WE GET CALLS BACK WHEN WE CALL. PAUL AND SHANTELL
Shantell is totally right Maggie. In fact, I think she should wait to celebrate her kid's first birthday until after New Year's Day. I just don't think that you and Marcus will be able to squeeze in Emma's special day until then.
Seriously, I've never seen someone be so selfish. IF Shantell had called when she was setting up this camping trip because she KNEW when McKaylee was born the whole issue could have been avoided. But it seems to me, that just like when you and Marcus lived with her, SHE WANTS EVERYTHING TO BE ABOUT HER. Your side of the family loves you, Marcus, and McKaylee and I am pretty sure that none of us would intentionally plan a trip with everyone else in the family, set it in stone and THEN inform you. And it appears that even though Marcus' mom, dad, step mom, and sister may have had other plans they made you guys their priority.
I don't think that you should be upset with anyone but Shantell and Paul about this. She has said in her last two comments that THEY planned this. Seems to me that she was butt hurt about something and wanted to hurt you and Marcus again.
Just ignore her and her poor spelling and grammar. You and Marcus are wonderful parts of our lives and you don't need to be dealing with this drama on top of everything else on your plate.
Accept Debbie's apology though. She at least seems sincere.
love you
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